Most men really struggle with fashion and how they are supposed to style themselves.
It’s really not their fault, since a lot of people have very high expectations for how a man should look and dress. The main reason that people have come to expect so much from men is the media and celebrities.
Irrespective of the cause, as a man you are expected to look a certain way. If you struggle with fashion and have no idea how you are supposed to style yourself, then this post has you covered.
Here is how you can style yourself if you want to win somebody over with your looks.
Bad Boy Attitude
It’s no secret that girls love bad boys. In fact, according to Sam at Get Her Back Guide, being a bad boy from time to time can be very healthy for a relationship.
If you have just met a new girl, then having a bad boy attitude could be a fantastic way of getting her to fall head over heels in love with you. You don’t need to keep up the attitude and can soften it with time, however in your relationship’s early days to keep her interested, be a bad boy.
Over time, you can gradually tone it down a bit—you can even convince her that she’s the reason you’ve changed (which she’ll love).
In terms of actual styling, one of the easiest ways to get a girl is to just conform to whatever trend is most current at the time that you are pursuing her. If all mainstream celebrities are wearing skinny jeans, then you should be wearing them too.
With that said of course, if the girl you are interested in does not follow the mainstream culture and is a member of a countercultural group, then follow that style instead.
You need to be as similar to her as possible in terms of style so that she feels like she can relate to you.
Against the Grain
However, if you are good-looking and have confidence, then you can afford to go against the grain and follow your own style.
As much as women like men who adhere to mainstream styles, they also like men who go against the grain and make their own style. It can be very difficult to do this which is why it’s not a good idea for all men.
If you are going to go against the grain, then you need to be confident, bold, and make sure that whatever look you’re going for suits you. If something doesn’t look good, then don’t try to pull it off.
Confidence is everything. If you aren’t confident, then no matter how stylish you are, girls won’t like you. A woman wants to feel safe with a man, so if he lacks confidence she won’t be able to get that feeling of safety and security from him.
Confidence isn’t something you’re necessarily born with—it can be learned despite what a lot of people think.
If your lack of confidence stems from your anxiety or any mental health disorder, then take some time to attend some kind of treatment course or therapy before approaching girls, so that you can resolve your issues.
You always need to look clean, no matter what style you are going for, and no matter how rough you are trying to make yourself look. While it’s true that some styles look better a little messy, you shouldn’t confuse messy with dirty.
Messing your hair up and looking like you’ve just gotten out of bed is completely different from not washing your hair and dragging yourself out of bed in the same clothes that you wore yesterday.
A lot of men don’t realize this, which is why they look so filthy and unapproachable most of the time.
Finally, you need to smell good. The sort of fragrance that you wear really depends on the look that you’re going for. If you are trying to look tough, then Bay Rum could work. If you want to look sweet, then a rose attar could be a good choice.
Smelling nice is important, but don’t confuse smells and outfits. You shouldn’t turn up looking like you’re in a motorbike gang while wearing a fragrance that smells like orange blossom water, because you’ll send mixed signals and the girl you want will think that you are a poser.
For a lot of men, styling themselves is very difficult. It doesn’t have to be difficult, however.
All that you need to do is to follow this post’s guidance, exercise some common sense, and find what looks best for you.
Don’t try to follow styles and trends that don’t suit you, because you risk looking amateurish by doing that.