Yesterday I spent most of the afternoon/evening trying to figure out how school was going to run for us this next semester since we are starting the new program. As I clicked on every possible link of the school’s website, I came across the parent forums. I read through and happened upon one posting about a single father with his two children, who he homeschooled. As the posts continued, others began to share their story as to why they choose to keep their children home … and one particular post caught my attention. It spoke of a lady whose niece was diagnosed with Sensory Processing Disorder. As I began to read through some of her examples of the child’s behavior, I could relate to most of it. So, I decided to look into it for myself.
Sensory Processing Disorder
You would just have to know me to understand … most people just think I’m a bit weird or “far fetched” in some of my actions … but after reading through this I was almost excited knowing that I’m not the only one … and there could actually be a warranted, medical reason as to why I have these behaviors! This website has a pretty exhausted list as to some of the symptoms … so I’m just going to hit on the biggest issues I seem to have that effect my everyday life (keep in mind that I fit into one extreme or the other … you may understand after reading through the list yourself).
SENSORY MODULATION:
- bothered by clothes; certain materials, tags, seams, pantyhose, ties, belts, turtlenecks, have to wear shorts or pants exclusively, etc. **Especially under garments! They drive me insane!
- bothered by “light touch”; someone lightly touching/rubbing your hand, face, leg or back
- distressed by others touching you; would rather be the “toucher” than the “touchee”
- difficulty going to the beach; the sand blowing on your skin or getting on your body
- avoid touching anything “messy”; if you do, you have to go wash your hands right away and/or only touch it with your fingertips
- hate to wear shoes and/or socks **can’t stand my toes “sticking together”
- a thrill seeker; loves fast and/or dangerous rides, leisure activities, and sports
- difficulty riding on elevators, escalators, or moving sidewalks
- seek out fast, spinning, and/or upside down carnival rides
- restless when sitting through a lecture, presentation, or movie
- difficulty eating foods with mixed textures, or one particular texture
- prefer foods with very strong tastes and flavors, particularly spicy foods
- bites lips or inside of cheeks **especially when in public; have to carry chap stick everywhere
- love to sleep with multiple or heavy blankets on top of you
- becomes nauseated or gags from certain cooking, cleaning, perfume, public restroom, or bodily odors
- identifies objects by smell, have to smell everything, judge whether you like something or someone by smell
- very high or very low energy level
- avoids crowds and plans errands at times when there will be fewer people **my poor family
- notice and bothered by noises other people do not seem bothered by…clocks, refrigerators, fans, people talking, outdoor construction, etc. **the dishwasher is my most bothersome noise
- sensitive to loud sounds or commotion
- can not attend certain public events or places due to excessive noise
SENSORY DISCRIMINATION:
- difficulty finding things in your purse or pocket without looking
- bothered by hands or face being dirty
- has to touch everything
- difficulty heating food to the correct temperature, feeling if it is too hot or too cold
- difficulty judging distances about where your car is in relation to other cars, in parking spaces, or near a curb (fail miserably at parallel parking!!)
- difficulty concentrating on or watching a movie/tv show when there is background noise or distractions
- can not complete concentrated tasks if noises present
- sensitive, or over reacts, to sirens, dogs barking, vacuum cleaners, blenders, or other sudden/loud sounds **again, the dishwasher, a small toy, anything can drive me crazy
- lethargic, hard to get going, appears “lazy” and unmotivated
- become engrossed in one single activity for a long time and seems to tune out the rest of their environment ** particularly my computer
- spend hours at a time on activities
- great difficulty settling body down for sleep or waking up in the morning
SOCIAL / EMOTIONAL:
- dislikes changes in plans or routines, needs structure **THIS IS HUGE for me
- may be described as “stubborn”, “defiant”, or “uncooperative”
- can’t seem to finish anything
- difficulty making decisions
- rigid and controlling
- prefers solitary activities, avoids groups
- impatient and/or impulsive
- difficulty with authority figures
- trouble relating to and socializing with peers and colleagues
- easily frustrated
- needs sameness and routines; needs to know what to expect
- have panic or anxiety attacks **especially in public places
- plagued by fears and/or phobias
- OCD-type qualities; can’t let foods touch each other on your plate, have to wear clothes a certain way, will only do ____, repetitively does ____, can not do _____ without doing _____, has to have ____ like ____
- hates surprises
- avoids eye contact
Can you relate to any of these? Do you know anyone that suffers from this? I am curious to find out more about it and how others cope? Now wonder I am so “strange” to those around me! It can overtake your life and it holds me “prisoner” within my own world. All of this coupled with my hypoglycemia … ugh, my poor family!